Partner-to-be borrowing money?

[arshad5]

Re: Partner-to-be borrowing money?

@funnyme

Guys im really confused… My boyfriend has recently gone through a period where he has lost his job and his family situation isnt great either.. so last month he asked me for money and I gave it as I felt bad. But this month he again said borrow me some more money and il pay you back! .. i gave it but i feel this is gonna become a habit as he may become dependent.. he has previously borrowed from family and told me about it but I have always had the view that money should not be borrowed before marriage… Am i right or am i just being iffy?

The guy seems to be a bit of a loser. He is unemployed and seems like even when he is employed he will struggle with money. He has nothing to offer you. You don’t seem to be too keen on him anyway as if you really liked him then you wouldn’t be worried about giving money to him. Deep down you know that he is a loser.