parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.

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Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.

^I suppose it is not my place to psychoanalyze nadz, but I do feel (as i said in my earlier post quoted below) these illogical and passionate declarations are made out of a feeling of defensiveness, as if her own competence and knowledge as a parent have been challenged. So what if you can’t or haven’t provided a separate room for your child, nadz? That doesn’t make you a bad or negligent parent. And giving your child a separate room does not make you a careless or negligent one either.

And as I said before, these kinds of unsupported and offensive comments will only lead to you annoying people who could be great resources for you. But that is your choice.

@Sahar02

Just rereading your initial post makes me wonder if the strong feeling you have about this is a little bit defensive. Like you’re talking to all these people who feel it is a matter of fact that you must provide a separate room for your child. And for whatever reason, if you did not feel it was necessary, did not plan ahead for it, or just didn’t have the means to provide it, you go the opposite way and insist that what they are doing is WRONG (not just different, but WRONG).

If this is even partially true, just remember to be aware of these kinds of feelings, and know that a good parent is not defined by the THINGS s/he gives, but by the love, guidance, and wisdom s/he provides. People are at different stages in their lives and in their relationships, and that affects their approaches as parents. Don’t let it get to you. But also don’t let it sour you toward different ideas and methods.