parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.

[DaffyDuck]

Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.

@nadz123

ok firstly, there have been times my baby has had the blanket somehow ending up on her face, alot of kicking and fighting shes always gdoing with the blankets and stuff, and somehow alhumdulilah by chance ive woken up to see or shes start to wimper, also have been times where shes starting coughing, now if she was in her own room, would i hear her cough? coughing alot, people say oh youll hear them crying, why should i let her cry…crying for a baby is the last resort…why should we let them get to that stage…just for our own sanity/peace of mind whatever. i find it BS that the reason for serperate room at such a young age is so they wont trouble you later or whatever, of course they will, they will trouble you always…your having a child, its not just for christmas dil bar gaya tho seperate kardo, theres a reason why docs recommened atleast 6months, and il do anything to r educe any sort of chance of anything happening to her. its not smothering, keeping her safe is not smothering, yes if i wanted her to slp with me when she was 15, of course it is.

and by few years i mean atleast until theyr 2 or 3…they wont be that young ever again.

one thing i have read is that the chances of SID and other fatal accidents has been where baby has been seperated…that scared the hell out of me…

anyway i do find it odd people would KILL themselves to have a child, would do anything for one, but as soon as they get one, they cant get away from the child…seperate this and seperate that just so that mummy and daddy can get some private` time…please.

however im not attacking anyone here personally.

I totally agree with you. I am also in favour that the baby should be with the parents for a minimum one year. My own neice has ended up crying soooo much when she woke up and didnt see any one around, she would hold her breath totally and we got soo scared when she did that. At other times, while sleeping she would have a nightmare or i dont know what and would wake up yelling and crying hysterically. Now she has started to crawl so she would end up on one edgy side or something.

Parents should be with the baby for sure. Screw the privacy issues for a few months,whats the super big deal. Babies do end up doing some thing wrong some times if they dont see any one with them. Such a safety risk should not be there.