both of our immediate families were aware of everything going on. me and my husband were always in contact. if his dad didnt like the way things were going or if something was important to him like a family tradition or whatever, my husband let me know and i made sure it happened and vice versa. everyone was pretty stressed during those days but also very excited. i think she should definitely speak to him about it and let him know. theres no reason why he should have negative feelings, at this point he should be understanding and caring and yeh he should make the extra effort to show her parents that their daughter is loved and will be looked after because im sure the way farida's parents are feeling is upsetting her. ofcourse they will be much happier and feeling more secure with their decision to marry their daughter if he takes the extra steps to assure them.
Sumo , thanks so much mate, you are right, perhaps they should talk openly... at least she wont feel cornered as she is feeling right now..