PARENTS RESPECT (BSB HATERS, Stay Out!)

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Re: PARENTS RESPECT (BSB HATERS, Stay Out!)

@redvelvet

Leave it be, BB. If this girl is a close friend or relative of yours and you share good rapport with her, you can gently tell her that if she refuses reciprocate respect to his parents, then she will risk losing her husband one day or severely strain her marriage. If you can’t do that…leave things alone. What we put forth eventually catches up with us at some point.

I am asked to not to talk to the girl… I stand by this decision. The girl has been misbehaving for a while now, one of the parents, in this case is dad, is blaming her upbringing and big mouth. I do think that she does deserve this “narazgi” attitude so she understands that it is a risky business to keep insulting husband’s family because they have respect too. Her husband gives much respect to his in-laws but why can’t she reciprocate? The couple lives 5 min away from girl’s family as she initiated the move to this place with her hubby. I wanted to know agar yeh narazgi jaiz hai?..

To Bella about the “elderly status” and its significance on extra respect as opposed to the MIL that you keep pointing out:

• Mother-In-Law has lived way before than the Daughter-In-Law with her husband
• They have more experience of life than you so it automatically gives them more respect just like work atmosphere
• We should at least try our best to be polite and respectful to husband’s parents because they have gained wisdom over the years and know more about life than we do.
• Aging makes elderly less able to determine what comments are ok and which are not.
• Elderly people gets crabby with an old age because they are dealing with lots of issues from health and social standards
• Maa k paoun mein jaannat hai… Allah ko parents ki narazgi pasand nahi…
• Parents aur biwi mein zameen asman ka faraq hai

Why does the DIL wants to be rude to the parents? Why can’t she politely discuss? Why does she have to use improper behavior such as foul language and disrespect?

At any cost physical abuse, harassment, disrespectful language, and any type of torture is unacceptable that can lead to life threatening damages from both DIL and MIL. The age doesn’t give them the right to abuse DIL… The problem we are discussing here is that the DIL is NOT respecting the parents… This is not a MIL AND DIL thread.. A lot of times DIL overlook their mistakes and don’t want to share their husband with his family… This is a very common problem in our culture.