Re: PARENTS RESPECT (BSB HATERS, Stay Out!)
Have you ever had parents who would never forgive your spouse because they misbehaved with them? Scream, yell, use foul lingo, or anything inappropriate which is very hard to forgive... This leads to them not talking to your suppose for many years... Are parents reaction justified? Your spouse ask for forgiveness but what if she/he does it often that your parents can't forgive her/him anymore...
Everyone wants respect at the end of the day but humaray culture/religion may sikhaya jata hai baray chottay ki tameez ka...
Mujhe lagtha hai parents reaction is justified...
If you put it this way, then why ask question?
There is no excuse to scream, yell, or use foul language against older people in the family.
There is no amount of so called abuse or pushing around which can call for these reactions................ unless there is .....obvious physical abuse or manhandling.
Read below also.
*misbehaving is not always just foul language *
it can be on many different levels.
In some families, foul language is just the norm and doesnt mean anything too bad. (not talking about my family... but from others that ive observed).
Misbehaving can be as TLK said, can be pushing someone to such an extreme that they have no option but to push back, and as Ethan said, it could mean, just pushing them out of the picture.
But........... the foul language is always an abuse against elderly person.
**I cannot support disrespect for elderly people and even in extreme situations, avoidance is better than engaging in misbehavior.
This kind of suggestion to misbehave can only lead to disaster.
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