PARENTS RESPECT (BSB HATERS, Stay Out!)

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Re: PARENTS RESPECT (BSB HATERS, Stay Out!)

@bella88

respecting elders is one thing but the OP suggests that since a woman misbehaved with her husbands parents, its okay for her inalws to not forgive her and not talk to her for years. so i was just wondering what should a woman do when her mother inlaw misbehaves with her and disrespects her?? should she also not forgive the mother inlaw and never speak to her for years? its only fair.
and older people are given discounts because they are usually on fixed incomes and dont work, getting discounts is not the same thing as being allowed to misbehave with your daughter inlaw.

No, it is not okay.

By ignoring/snubbing the DIL for years, the in-laws would also be hurting their son (her husband) and their grandchildren. Since this cold shoulder has a domino-effect on other people, it may even be seen as a transgression. It’s the same thing if you reverse the situation to where the DIL snubs her in-laws for years. It is not only the intended target/s of the snub that will suffer; the husband and children are also affected. So, when you look at it from this angle, it’s an excess and there is nothing “fair” about it.