Re: Parents of Adopted child/ren
Very noble thoughts in deed however I would advise to take a closer look.
This is a very permanent matter that can't be reversed. Or shouldn't be reversed. Too often people think let me do something nice for the world and adopt. Although the reasoning starts from this thought, the actual act needs to be given a deeper understanding.
I know that when and if I adopt I am bringing a child into my childless life. I need him/her just as much if not more then they need me. I need to be a mother just as much the child needs me.
Another very commen misconception is - well the birth mother didnt love the child or didnt care for the child so she gave her away. But look, this woman carried the child for the entire pregnancy and went through child birth however painful or not painful that was. Then she lit my life with her chirag to say. In today's world there are a million ways and reasons to abort. But she chose for the child to live. She loves him too - maybe not how we understand.
I could go on but these two points bother me the most. :)
Good luck with everything.