Parents approving you marrying a non-Desi?

Re: Parents approving you marrying a non-Desi?

I think a lot of these asian guys tend to look at non-desis for marriage as they want to get as far away from their culture as possible, dont kno why...

Im speaking from what i have seen in my family/friends circle... these muslim guys look at non-desis mainly bcos of their looks and their open-minded attitude, they just want to b part of an open society with no cultural strings attached to it... so really, with these kind of guys, i usually say it's up to them - at the end of the day its their life and they going to live wid that partner... some marriages to non-desis work out some dont - u cant generalise... but one thing is dat d non-desi spouse very rarely fits in to d desi spouse's family - its cos society may accept the rishtah but they will never mingle in wid d non-desi spouse d way they would have with a desi girl/guy... so really its up2 u wat u want... but u should b prepared to think about d consequences and affects on u and ur non-desi spouse...