Re: PArenting....TIPS!
I think there is something called being over prepared! yes its great to have a good idea as to how you want to raise your kids and what values you want to instill in them but sometimes overplanning it kills the whole fun in raising kids. Being a parent can also be a learning process, We are all humans. YOu can never plan everything from before hand, the best thing to do is give kids a loving environment and teach them good from bad. kids need to be taught along the way as they encounter different things in different stages of their lives.
Btw i havent read all of your posts in this thread so i apologise if iv got it wrong but some of things you say have nothing to do with parenting skills...