I think ppl who give you sincere advice would be your well wisher. Yes they might interfare you in your and child bonding but they all do that do to love.
I haven't seen a single one who said that they do that due to love not to bother you. It's better for both I mean mom and her child to take advice from an experienced person.
I think you guys don't understand our parents love to our kids more than us. They all do that due to love. I don't know why you guys don't like advice from mom or MIL.
Niki didi gram tail kaan kay parday naheen pharti lol. They have logics and that work too but as you don't know so you don't understand.
I always use to ask my mom why you do this and that and what are the reasons and she use to tell me and most of the time I use to think what might be reason as sometimes she wasn't able to tell what was the reason behind doing that as she didn't ever asked her parents what they did and why. So I use to think myself. Somtimes I explained her why they do that.
As my mom was expert in telling which child the lady is going to have after looking at the lady's belly and she use to tell her father use to give some water with sura mariam and something to put on the navel and something during the labour and that process become easy and quick but she didn't learn and haven't ask that.
Niki didi agar kaan main keera chala jaay ya mail nikalna ho to neem garam tail bohat kar amad hota hai aur bohat asan bhi yeah I checked it. It sure work. You can clean your ears by putting tail in your ears no need of cotton but and spend your time. Tail will bring mail and even kill a keera makora in your to ease you.
Mothers know everything from their experience so I would be happy if any mother (Mother or MIL) give advice.
She might not like your way of up bringing but that might be because of the love and experience so don't be bothered by her. You are lucky you got so caring mom.
They without the knowledge and education brought us up way more better than us. There is no comparision.
Don't get mad take it easy. If you don't want to follow don't do. But listen to them and say ok to make her happy.
Sometimes their way can bother you. But you know quran says bardasht karain aur us ka ajar pain akhrat main aur dunia main.
Jub aap kay buchchay aap ki baton pay is tarha karain gay to aap ko samajh aay ga kay wo ghalat kartay hain kay sahi.
Let them do something too to make them happy and to bond with your child.
Don't get irritated.
As my mom told pehlay zamanay kay buchchon ko nani daadi paala karteen theen ziadatar shayad is liaay maaoon ka bhi dil karta ho ga kay wo palain.
. They’ll probably have you taken by authorities for tring to mess with your child! Some things cannot be practiced the same way and also, we too need our own time to learn and grow with our experiences and most importantly develop a private and personal bond.