Pakistanis blame India for violence

Barring terrorism sponsored by Pakistan, Indians have much more vested interest in Sudan. There are several Indian companies operating in Sudan, in various fields, including oil exploration and drilling. In some sense, the well being of Sudan has a much more direct consequence in India.

But your point is well taken, I don't frequent Sudanese forums. However, India has good relations with Sudan. That is not the case with Pakistan.

I have no idea which Indians you have interacted with and where in India you have traveled. I also have no want to re-litigate ancient history.

I am very active in the Indian community, in the US. I am active politically, contribute to PAC's and Indian lobbying efforts, and I have business interests in India. I see lots of Indians, though I'm not influential, I do meet with lots of Indians that are. I have never run across anyone, who is less than 60, that doesn't think Pakistan has a right to exist. That's just a ludicrous notion.

Indian policy makers are much more concerned with the 'what now' as opposed to the 'why does Pakistan exist'. Frankly, it's a silly notion. I think Pakistanis are the only ones struggling with the notion of the meaning of Pakistan, the reason for Pakistan, or the ideology of Pakistan. Pakistani newspapers are littered with opinion pieces as to why Pakistan exists, why it had to come to being, and why it must exist. Ask the same question of me, and most Indians I know, and you'll get the same answer: Pakistan exists for the exact same reason India exists...for the well being of it's citizens.

I'm not sure what you're talking about, in terms of biased history lessons. If it's any consolation, including the Indian Prime Minister, the leadership in India was largely educated in Cambridge, Harvard, and Yale. Indian institutions, as they are now, were not to par back in the 60's and 70's. Indian policy makers are foreign policy realists as opposed to ideologues.

Recent history contra-indicates you. India has been anything but petty. In 1999, most observers agreed that Vajpayee and Sharrif were going to make peace. India was going jettison a portion of the Kashmir valley to Pakistan, placating the Pakistani position, and the line of control was going to become a demilitarized border. Vajpayee and Sharrif were going to walk away with the Nobel Peace prize and an intractable problem was going to be solved. However, Musharraf and the Pakistani military had other plans. In return for the Indian PM's peace trip, we got Kargil.
Then, after Musharraf's coup, the Indian Parliament was attacked by Pakistan based jihadis. According to a Jane's article at the time, India was so close to striking that American's had B1-B and B-52's were on stand-by in Diego Garcia to neutralize Pakistan's nuclear first strike capability. With 9/11 looming and Collen Powell's declaration in Congress that Pakistan was the global hub of terrorism, Pakistan again came to the negotiation table. India's want for peace was such that Indians agreed to what were called 'back channel' negotiations while Pakistan based jihadis continued, and stepped up, attacks in Kashmir and India.
Again, Musharraf and India, now with Singh, came to the same agreement that was reached with Nawaz. Zardari and Kayani also agreed to the terms. It was going to be implemented and sold to the public. This time, it was the ISI and members of the Military that were unhappy. For this deal, India got attacks in Mumbai.

I'm not really sure where India has been petty. If anything, India has been restrained.
But here is the real question: Is there any one in Pakistan to make peace with?

Pakistan stands to gain millions of dollars in transit fees for Indian goods and oil and gas through Pakistan. Indians are willing to basically open up the Indian market to Pakistan, duty free, subsidize the sale of machine tools to Pakistan, open up Indian capital markets, and lift all trade restrictions without any reciprocity. Seriously, what does it take?

Pakistan can continue to blame anyone. It’s largely irrelevant and an internal Pakistani matter. I, and many like me, want peace. We can continue to litigate ancient history, or we can look ahead.