Pakistani Women

Monk · October 9, 2009, 5:31pm

What if you were pretty and stuff(not that you are not..now) But pretty..and physically charming…in a way… so that men from every race would be willing to marry you.

And you were up to the mark in every way.. u know..

would you still marry pakistani men??

If NO.. I totally understand… if YES.. why ??

Niksik · October 9, 2009, 5:31pm

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Monk · October 9, 2009, 5:33pm

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btaeen btaeen

Niksik · October 9, 2009, 5:34pm

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Yeh kis terha ka question hai Monk?

What does being pretty and capable have to do with who you will marry?

Monk · October 9, 2009, 5:36pm

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u know...

Gaia · October 9, 2009, 5:38pm

Good thing there were parenthese right after:emmy:

Monk · October 9, 2009, 5:40pm

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yeah don't want to die yet...

djmi · October 9, 2009, 5:43pm

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Yes. because
- pakistani men in general respect their women(some cases aside).
- understanding your own kind is easier than other cultures.
- pakistani men mostly arent good looking, so if i were pretty and stuff, i would have the upper hand.

Monk · October 9, 2009, 5:47pm

I know the feeling

chanda_kh · October 9, 2009, 5:55pm

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desi guys are the best! seriously...jo achay hain wo achay hain...bohat achay hain.
for me, language, culture,music mushaira, qawalis...traditions, literature,respect,family values,belief system...spirituality...all are heavy matters when it comes to spending the rest of your life with someone.
some things cannot be understood by someone of a different culture..so I cannot see myself with anyone non-desi.

lady_red · October 9, 2009, 5:56pm

I'd still marry a Pakistani man because I'd want to remain in the same culture. I think Pakistani culture is the best on earth in terms of festivities, and elaborate wardrobe!

djmi · October 9, 2009, 5:57pm

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very true chanda_kh.

Monk · October 9, 2009, 6:18pm

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ooo come on quit lying ladies... tell me the truth now...

Gaia · October 9, 2009, 6:24pm

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I would have married a whitie, without a question, if i wouldn't have found him!!

TLK · October 9, 2009, 6:53pm

Oh I wish you could mention anything like 'I would marry a pakistani man cause pakistani men are good looking and handsome' .. instead you mention mushaira and qawwali ...bohut khoob

kiya husband se qawaaliyan kerwani hain aap ko

Reha · October 9, 2009, 6:53pm

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Being Pakistani makes things easier...yes. Common food, language, habits, norms, etc.

Does that guarantee a good marriage? No.

Niksik · October 9, 2009, 6:55pm

Pakistani men rock! They are caring, loving and totally handsome

chanda_kh · October 9, 2009, 7:34pm

yes its on the agenda!

no really! things that i am accustomed to, must be of some importance to my partner, looks shmooks..aaaallll relative...my husband is MINE, and what attracts me to him, may not work for others...hence all couples are made for each other :)

if all we have is looks to work with, its hard to go further and beyond....women need more than just eye candy to have a proper intimate relationship.

chanda_kh · October 9, 2009, 7:34pm

i second that!

chanda_kh · October 9, 2009, 7:38pm

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besides nothing more romantic than shair-o-shairi... :)