Pakistani women, more possessive?

[haimeradil]

[quote="Straight_up, post:9, topic:190318"]

Desi women raised in the west are not more possessive. It's totally the other way around. Neither are we insecure.

Women back home freak out if their husbands talk to anyone else except them.quote]^

this is so true. and if you confront them about frekaish stuff like this that they do then on come the magarmach ke ansoo. fake fake fake.

[bunnyhoney]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

my husbands ex wife did that. she never used to let him look at a girl on TV, never mind girl in life. Then she would fall to his feet asking for forgiveness, whilst sobbing and sometimes she got a knife out on him, threatening to kill him. Those people watch too many bollywood movies.

[haimeradil]

omg are youy serious. psycho wife.
hey didn't you say your husband is like 20 years old. this is his 2nd marriagge in such a young age. woah.

[Monk]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

no
thats what hubby told her!!
HE was never going to say, oh my ex was amazing etc

[Reha]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

One might be more possessive than the other but I guess I havent really encountered it too much. I barely ever speak to the husbands aside from simple formalities like "salaam" or "how are you". Unless its my BILs or my best friends' husbands, I stay away.

[bunnyhoney]

Yeah my poor sweetheart was duped into marrying this girl when he was 16 years old. They didnt really get married, i.e they didnt have rukhsati - they had Nikah only. Wedding was going to be later on, until he married me instead and got rid of her :)

omg are youy serious. psycho wife. hey didn't you say your husband is like 20 years old. this is his 2nd marriagge in such a young age. woah.

[bunnyhoney]

She got a knife out on him in front of me

no thats what hubby told her!! HE was never going to say, oh my ex was amazing etc

[arshad5]

so overall, are Pakistani women more possessive than Pakistanis living in west?

Yep its is generally true I do believe.

[kapracrazy]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

it's the pakistani culture and mind frame to blame .. not teh women!! In Paistan, actually in pakistanis no matter where they live their minds are set that a man and a woman cant be "just friends" .. there always has to be something disgusting going on behind the curtains!

[haimeradil]

it's the pakistani culture and mind frame to blame .. not teh women!! In Paistan, actually in pakistanis no matter where they live their minds are set that a man and a woman cant be "just friends" .. there always has to be something disgusting going on behind the curtains!

jaahil gawar pakistanis.

[Sara516]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

*I have removed a half-page's worth of posts from this thread. Haimeradil, I hope my PM cleared thins up for you. If you have any more questions, feel free to PM me, AngelEyes, and TLK. Now let's get back on track shall we?
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[Natasha_3]

@navaidishere

**And what about Pakistani husbands who are possessive of their wives to the point they are breathing down their necks? **

Oh right, we don’t talk about that! Gotcha

**And whats so bad about a women who is possessive of his husband? Most men I know like their women to be reasonably possessives but not to the point they are dictating. There is a fine line. **

hahahahaha
anyways…
IM POSSESIVE AND PROUD OF IT !!

[Anil_Khan]

There actually is a sub-group I think in Desi culture of overly possessive gals...the ones who would not even consider marrying a non-virgin guy or even a guy who has had a past relationship. Ive met one or two of those...and they seem almost obsessed about the whole thing. The type that wants her guy to look at her and her alone, dont you dare notice or care if you see a beautiful woman, wants constant attention and affection etc etc.

Not the majority for sure...but they're out there. Not as much in western culture because its almost a given here that both guys and gals have had a relationship before.

look at u becoming a mod on a Pakistani forum, mashAllah. :)

btw, do u speak urdu seeing as how ur married to a Pakistani?

[Dushwari]

Re: Pakistani women, more possessive?

a) fidelity is essential or there is no need to pretend marrying one person for life.

b) married men ought not to be so dispensible to other women. maybe integrity/ self esteem issues?

NO spouse should ever feel jealous or insecure , but both spouses must do their part in ENSURING that there is not a slight chance of being held under suspicion/s of faithlessness.

possessive has its degrees and motives.
so that should be understood, first.

[cricketplaya]

Yeah my poor sweetheart was duped into marrying this girl when he was 16 years old. They didnt really get married, i.e they didnt have rukhsati - they had Nikah only. Wedding was going to be later on, until he married me instead and got rid of her :)

umm.... maybe you can elaborate a bit more..... what you mean by Nikah only? Nikkah is marriage......