I thinks it's the other way round now..men can and usually are sooo possesive and controlling! They can't even take it if u're talking/mentioning another guy no matter what context it's in.
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Jimmy K can't take any more heat, from all much respected girls.
So jimmy K retires!!
^ That's not the jimmy K we know!
Jimmy K can't take any more heat, from all much respected girls. So jimmy K retires!!
Ab is mein naraz hone vali kaunsi baat hai?
Mazaq karrahi hein!
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lagta naheen. every one hates jimmy.:(
All of my sisters in laws (cousins wives) who have came over from Pakistan are completely possessive about their husbands. They keep tabs on them 24/7. At one point, we, the female cousins were not even allowed to talk to our married male cousins due to what their wives would say. Some of them dont even allow their husband to talk to their own mothers alone. Its beyond silliness.
My step monster was a possessive nut aswell. Our father wasnt allowed to communicate with us in English as she couldnt understand it too well. Monster indeed.
wow. your cousins wives.
one word
(teedeeh deeh) ""PsyCho""
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^^ahh how sweet, say u like desi girls and we will think about liking you.....
as for posessive guy.
mine tells me not to give my number to friends. only him. i think he thinks for some odd reason that friends might turn me against him.
and he even thinks the same thing about my relatives. he sais that what is the point in meeting them. what are you going to get by meeting them.
he acts like there is a conspiracy going on against him.
but when i explained to him how it is negatively affecting our relationship he stopped. at least for the time being. at least now does not show me his this insecurity. i don't know about the inside.
^^ahh how sweet, say u like desi girls and we will think about liking you.....
desi girls rule!!
as for posessive guy. mine tells me not to give my number to friends. only him. i think he thinks for some odd reason that friends might turn me against him. and he even thinks the same thing about my relatives. he sais that what is the point in meeting them. what are you going to get by meeting them. he acts like there is a conspiracy going on against him. but when i explained to him how it is negatively affecting our relationship he stopped. at least for the time being. at least now does not show me his this insecurity. i don't know about the inside.
is very sad, but in most cases i have seen alot of girls give up alot to make their hubbies happy, but it doesnt happen back...
best thing to do is expalin to him in a calm manner, and hopefully he will see ther is nothing wrong with having friends...:)
desi girls rule!!
u know dat! :D
waise u looking for a gori to go with ur gorafied name?
desi girls rule!!
AND the illustrious Jimmy Kimble is BACK!
thank you for your concern. you are a darling.
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haimeradil, I swear I thought you were a guy the whole time!
and regarding the situation you’re in, 
I can imagine how suffocating it is to be with someone soo restricting.
really. that is funny do you really think a guy would keep this name. it is from one of my all time fav songs from josh. haii mera dill. lallaaala hmm lala.
thanks but he is getting better 
Ohhhhhh, it's Hai Mera Dil!
lol, I thought it was Haimer Adil.:o
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^ I thought you had spelled it wrong and it was actually Humara Dil...LOL
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^ Hahahhahaa, okay now I feel better. 
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^ yah first i thot it was hamera (like the name Humera) adil. :D
I actually agree with you. Asian women in the west are more insecure. Reason? I could write an essay on this. I think it depends on lifestyle, but in the west, when there are small communities of Asians/Pakistani's together, strong Pakistani mentality that comes to surface - a mentality that existed in Pakistan when parents generation left Pakistan. New immigrants (our parents) from Pakistan would be here and attempt to impose a Pakistani lifestyle within their kids in all aspects. Pakistani girls in the west are taught "dont wear this, so and so will start talking if you go there, dont hang around white people, wear your hair like this, dont talk to boys" etc etc this leads to confusion, because kids are living in two different cultures - Pakistani at home, where they have their 'security' in their family and values. But then they look out to the western culture and see elements of it that they want to incorporate into their life, like girls being able to go out and work and get an education etc etc. I am not saying that Pakistani culture rejects a girl following education or going to work, I am saying that this was probably the case at the time that parents had left their homeland. Pakistan, in the meantime has advanced to such a level that sometimes you can say that they are more advanced in Pakistan then here!! I dont know about other Pakistani families, but my family was VERY strict. Some Pakistani families in the west still do not allow their girls to go out and get a job or even continue their education and those who do, have to fight for it. This is again because of the Pakistani mentality and values that exist within the parents that were derived from cultural practises that existed in Pakistan at the time that parents gerneration left Pakistan. Family have other plans, like sending them to Pakistan and getting them married off. There is nothing wrong with that, but if the girl decides to get a job and postpone getting married, she sacrifices the happiness of her family and eventually her family could even reject her for making her own choices in life. This is where the insecuritiy comes from. A lot of girls do in fact follow on with what they want to do, even when they come from strict families and a consequence of this is that they loose the support system of their family. In Pakistan today - the support system of family is always there, whereas in the west the support system of a family isnt required. There are thousands and thousands of Muslims/Pakistani/Asians and non Asians who live away from their family .i.e not in the same household as their parents, whilst still unmarried. This is the biggest source of insecurity. If a girl who is a Muslim Pakistani, living in the west, lives away from her parents to pursue what she wanted to do in her life, doing things that her family probably didnt agree with (study, work etc ) and then she wants to get married - the potential husbands family would question 'why' her family didnt give her the support, or "what did she do wrong?" Its always 'strange' to see a Pakistani girl livng on her own, without her family and potential in laws would question that. This always boils down to the fact that "there must be something wrong with the girl...." But this all depends on the kind of family the girl comes from. Not all people and families are the same. This is insecurity. I would be interested to know your thought behind your post, kimble.
I guess women in west are much more insecure compare to one's in pak. I wont blame them, They have reason to feel so. I believe its same for guys too.