^ Nothing wrong with being attracted to Asians, or guys from any other race for that matter.
Why do YOU want to dictate to others what they should 'want'?
Where did I say it's wrong to be attracted to Asians?
Heck I'm half Asian, so it would be a plus for me. But seriously, which guy would be cool with a girl liking him particularly because he belongs to a certain race? I think I'd be better off without such girls.
Be attracted to Asians, Desis, Caucasians, Blacks. I don't care. Don't just be attracted to them because they are this or that race.
Aren't you the one who was saying Pakistanis shouldn't leave Pakistan and those who do leave Pakistan are cowards? What happened? It's OK If you are entitled to share your opinion, but when others do it, they are dictating others what they should do and what not? LOL
.....Be attracted to Asians, Desis, Caucasians, Blacks. I don't care. *Don't just be attracted to them because they are this or that race.
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Aren't you the one who was saying Pakistanis shouldn't leave Pakistan and those who do leave Pakistan are cowards? What happened? It's OK If you are entitled to share your opinion, but when others do it, they are dictating others what they should do and what not? LOL
yes, you have an opinion, share it here. Don't pick on people who have differing opinions, that's it.
I did say who leave because of just hardships they face in Pakistan are cowards. I am not saying what they 'should' or 'should not' do. I have an opinion and entitled to it. I don't ask anyone not to leave Pakistan.
If someone likes Asians because of the race, why are you bothered?
yes, you have an opinion, share it here. Don't pick on people who have differing opinions, that's it.
I'm not picking on her. She made a comment, I made a counter comment. Isn't that what these boards are for?
I did say who leave because of just hardships they face in Pakistan are cowards. I am not saying what they 'should' or 'should not' do. I have an opinion and entitled to it. I don't ask anyone not to leave Pakistan.
I said people who are attracted to other people just because of their race have a limited horizon in this matter. I didn't say what they should do and what not.
I have an opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Liking someone just because of their race is wrong in my opinion, it doesn't mean that you shouldn't do it. Go on, live out your fetishes.
If someone likes Asians because of the race, why are you bothered?
If someone leaves Pakistan because of hardship, why are you bothered? Why call them a coward? Oh yeah, because you are entitled to your opinion, but when other's state their opinion, they are dictating others to do things.
Where did I say it's wrong to be attracted to Asians?
Heck I'm half Asian, so it would be a plus for me. But seriously, which guy would be cool with a girl liking him particularly because he belongs to a certain race? I think I'd be better off without such girls.
Be attracted to Asians, Desis, Caucasians, Blacks. I don't care. Don't just be attracted to them because they are this or that race.
Aren't you the one who was saying Pakistanis shouldn't leave Pakistan and those who do leave Pakistan are cowards? What happened? It's OK If you are entitled to share your opinion, but when others do it, they are dictating others what they should do and what not? LOL
Im attracted to desi guys. Nver thought I"d be considered shallow. :(
Im attracted to desi guys. Nver
thought I"d be considered shallow. :(
That's a different story so don't be :(. LOL
You are Desi, so you share a common identity etc. with your fellow Desis. That's why you're attracted to them.
Now If you were attracted to Latinos (people you didn't grow up with/don't share any cultural values with/Aren't part of) I'm pretty sure you'd be attracted to them based on shallow perceptions.
Here's an example...
Latino guys are pretty goodlooking too, those guys are like born with a six-pack and pecks, and I'd kill to have a smooth flawless skin, doe-eyes and shiny jet black hair like that... I'm gonna stop right there I'm worrying myself.
Sorry to the poster for posting this here without their permission.
Isn't all physical attraction down to so-called 'shallow' perceptions? Some men are only attracted to slim women, others want curvy, others only tanned women or those with blonde hair etc and some physical characteristics are obviously more common to certain races (such as the Swedish often having blonde hair or the Vietnamese often having those amazing cheekbones). I don't think there's anything wrong with it, we can't help what we do or don't find attractive and as someone else pointed out when u first see someone and 'fancy' them and decide u want to know them more it's usually down to their appearance as you've not even gotten an idea of their personality..
You are Desi, so you share a common identity etc. with your fellow Desis. That's why you're attracted to them.
Now If you were attracted to Latinos (people you didn't grow up with/don't share any cultural values with/Aren't part of) I'm pretty sure you'd be attracted to them based on shallow perceptions.
Here's an example...
Sorry to the poster for posting this here without their permission.
What does being attracted to someone based purely on physical features have to do with culture? I think you keep confusing claim based on physical features with being attracted to someone based on their intellectual capabilities.
^ He seems to think being attracted to someone based on physical attraction is shallow but attraction thru shared cultural identity is ok.. personally I've never come across a person who's initially attracted to another because of anything other than a physical preference, most of us have certain things we personally find attractive. I've never been attracted to someone just because they're desi or white and we share a common culture, that's a very strange way of looking at it imo
the only factor in the end that really matters is this - is he/she a good person? And do they love you? if the answer is yayy - then that i believe is above everything.
And i agree with an earlier post - women shape children more so than men - in such cases i think desi women amrrying non desi stand a greater chance of retaining their culture vi atheir kids than the other way round!!
