Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

[Dushwari]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

Thanks, Khan. I hope you do not mean sarcasm here, but implied true understanding, of where I am approaching the issue from.

best,

@skhan

^ The most meaningful post I've read in life for a while.

[shweetdreamz]

Re: Enough of paki- male bashing

@Femme Fatale

No matter how much u bash other desis, chances are that u will eventually end up marrying one.

exactly. so its better u spend time mastering techniques to find ways to get your way with a desi male rather than spend it looking for the extinct kind of ideal.

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: Enough of paki- male bashing

hahaha sweets.

[Faisal]

Re: Enough of paki- male bashing

Its so refreshing to see a whole stereotype discussion started with a grand sample consisting of TWO people. Yayyy!!!

[Faisal]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

Ah! the evils of thread merging. : sarr peetnay vala icon (mod ka) :

[shweetdreamz]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

hawww haye yeh kya hua?

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

@Faisal

Ah! the evils of thread merging. : sarr peetnay vala icon (mod ka) :

i can split it back into as many as u like Faisal. How many would u like?

[Faisal]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

Nevermind :) I just had a one-liner here. Not sure about the threadstarter(s) and other contributors.

[parissenoor]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

@Dushwari

what i find disappointing about young Pakistanis Muslim men is that they are "unaware" of the fact that there is a whole world of good people - men from white, black, Arab and Spanish races, who value assertive, humble, yet strong, and yes, charming women. they do not abuse the women nor do they put their values on them. they've a way of reasoning that allows for both partners - in a dating or a committed marriage relationship, to forego the egos and simply be "open".

how come young Pakistani Muslim men do not have this, they are so crazed by just the physical appearance and or the lust for power, money and more like capturing women into their insecurities?

it is very sad, indeed.

there are many men AND women in this wolrd who think like this, and they are not all desi!
there are desi men with respectable attitude towards women, but like most respectable people thy are not the ones you would notice more easily because due to their manners they won't harass you, they won't stalk you and they won't talk to a stranger female in the streets:D
so don't be quick to judge badly desi men because you encounter bad ones.

[rimsh_1]

Re: Enough of paki- male bashing

@PrinceMS

^^ and to balance them we have innocent, cute , handsome Paki guys

where, where?? i don't see em anywhere :LB:

[Sara516]

Re: Enough of paki- male bashing

@rimsh

where, where?? i don’t see em anywhere

[rimsh_1]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

^ :( main nay kia kia..

[Orpheus]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

...yet another men bashing thread.

[Orpheus]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

..and stop copying and pasting other people's work.

[Dushwari]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

ahista ahista...

[Ex-Guppan]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

@Afridi786

ur so idiotic..enough said!
you have no clue what u r talking about, ur just making assumptions…have u met every Pakistani Muslim guy and asked them their opinion? have you? if u haven’t you cant say they r like this! they r like that!
u don’t like Pakistani men, its ur fk’n problem, its ur fk’n opinion, not the fk’n truth, im sick of you trying start up things by making these kind of accusations. u and u alone r the reason i have no intention of having any kind of relationship with a Pakistani ever, because i believe Pakistani women r self-centered, ignorant, completely oblivious towards anyone elses feelings, and egotistic just cuz of you.
Do all Pakistani Muslim guys a favor, and stay the hell away from us if u hate us so much! Go marry a fk’n white guy and live happily ever after.

Tameez kay diaray mein reh ker baat karo my dear Muslim brother :nono:

[Afridi786]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

kyu, kya karagi tu

[Ex-Guppan]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

@Anil Khan

I think you’re my long last brother. Beautiflly put.

How about me and you take a trip to the Hunza Valley and look for girls who are totally the oppisite of the girls here?

Aneel, plssssssssss. As much as you do desi gals bashing, u do not come up with disrespecting comments like Afridi does. disappointment wala icon
Pls. go and read his posts, very very disrespectful. Pls. don’t identify with him altogether How can u go to PK with him, he doesn’t even like Paki gals, unless he changes his mind so fast … again.

Afridi, no offence but u can still state ur point without being disrespectful and may earn more respect for your pov.

Now am not bashing anyone so pls. don’t come after me with a beillan or kursi

[Afridi786]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

I only become negative when u girls insult us fellas, i like Pakistani girls just not u girls, everything i said "insulting" girls was when I was trying to show what happens when you generalize...i didnt really mean it...just to show u how guys feel when you girls generalize...understand larki?

[Ex-Guppan]

Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations

Okay Dushwari, What kind of survey are you doing now? You have already done one survey on us and you almost got me on that one

I am sure you are up to something and in the end you will come up with an analysis. Well, I must say u have stirred people up very smartly, right from the start of the reactions and later, all arms up in the air except a few remained calm and presented their reaction in a reasonable manner.
So come on, tell us. Am waiting before I post my reaction, what’s next