this thread is meant for people with thoughtfulness and patience of intellect as well as reasoning grace.
what i find disappointing about young Pakistanis Muslim men is that they are “unaware” of the fact that there is a whole world of good people - men from white, black, Arab and Spanish races, who value assertive, humble, yet strong, and yes, charming women. they do not abuse the women nor do they put their values on them. they’ve a way of reasoning that allows for both partners - in a dating or a committed marriage relationship, to forego the egos and simply be “open”.
how come young Pakistani Muslim men do not have this, they are so crazed by just the physical appearance and or the lust for power, money and more like capturing women into their insecurities?
it is very sad, indeed.
so, we should not mind seeing men who are non-Muslim and non-Pakistani. I think that in this, there is an inherent check for all of us in the age group, both women and men, to reassess our levels of self-esteem and grow a sense of maturity that goes beyond, false premises of hollow logic that is based on only “take, take, take” mentality.
& what is more repelling is that the methods and manners and attitudes as well as practices of doing so, are one after another abominable e.g., abusing, mentally torturing, physically assaultive.
would it not be nice that our men realized the beauty of being just themselves and genuinely acting respectfully towards others, as well as in a respectable manner?
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ur so idiotic..enough said!
you have no clue what u r talking about, ur just making assumptions...have u met every Pakistani Muslim guy and asked them their opinion? have you? if u haven't you cant say they r like this! they r like that!
u don't like Pakistani men, its ur fk'n problem, its ur fk'n opinion, not the fk'n truth, im sick of you trying start up things by making these kind of accusations. u and u alone r the reason i have no intention of having any kind of relationship with a Pakistani ever, because i believe Pakistani women r self-centered, ignorant, completely oblivious towards anyone elses feelings, and egotistic just cuz of you.
Do all Pakistani Muslim guys a favor, and stay the hell away from us if u hate us so much! Go marry a fk'n white guy and live happily ever after.
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Dushwari....there are some good pakistani guys and some bad pakistani guys...just like there are good and bad guys from other cultures....
so we cant generalise....I have seen some pakistani guys who are like u have mentioned above.....on the other hand i have also seen some really nice ones who are totally opposite to what you're saying.
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What is so different between your message and hers? Same point of view from both of you, which brings out the point that we desis, both men and women, behave pretty much the same way.
Re: Pakistani Muslim Men Dilemma: putting values on others in intimate relations
tell me what have I ever said or done that makes me a feminist? most of the time I disagree with most of the girls here on GS…so tell me how am I not traditional?
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I wouldn't mind. As long as they're educated in terms of how to behave around family and stuff. I could care less if she's able to do differential calculus :)
u r right this has gone a bit too far.not all paki men r that bad .may be dushwari had some bad experience.