PC, please take a breath. I was older than you when I met my awesome hubby…and didn’t even get married until almost a year later, when another birthday had come and gone.
Yes it’s true that a lot of Pakistani guys want someone in her 20s, but not ALL of them. There are actually a lot of decent men out there who are looking for such things as wit, sharaafat, good manners, a sense of humor, strong sense of faith etc. as opposed to just looking for a certain age, certain looks, certain social status and other supeficial stuff.
They are out there. I promise you that. Just hold on. Go to work, have fun with your friends, spend time with your family, and keep an open mind when meeting people. Above all, have faith in Allah.
The rest does fall into place. I know that sounds horribly cliched, but it’s absolutely true. I believe it. My hubby - Pakistan born and bred - who treats me like a queen has restored my belief in it.
I hope that helped, even a little bit.
Good luck!
