From this website alone I see too many negative portrayals of our desi men and too many statements from male guppies which are nothing short of distasteful.
Please tell me why I SHOULD keep up my search for a Pakistani husband. Something. Anything. Throw me a bone here.
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the abundant body hair?
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Positive things
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that was supposed to count as a positive.
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Gross. Try again.
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PCG, I am married to a Pakistani man who I met back in univ. After being married a pretty long time and being in company of families like ours, here is my conclusion:
Bottomline, they are as human as anyone else and have the same exact needs.
One thing though, they are very goodlooking 
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:aq:
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Why such suspicion Sheyn? 
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they r so ez 2 please na, u just need 2 know
how 2 make the perfect biryani :D
Not suspicion , apprehension !
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But why, what reasons do you have to believe otherwise
From this website alone I see too many negative portrayals of our desi men and too many statements from male guppies which are nothing short of distasteful.
Please tell me why I SHOULD keep up my search for a Pakistani husband. Something. Anything. Throw me a bone here.
You should not. I think there are lots of very nice non-desi muslim men out there that will perfectly match your taste. Plus I think there is no point trying to get convinced over something if you already firmly believe otherwise. Good luck.
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cus there are a lot more of us out there (and in here) who are married to lovely desi men.
sometimes, they dont seem all too nice, but honestly, they are lovely when it comes down to the crunch
*I was a pakistani man hater, and never saw myself marrying them. As everything i heard and a lot that happend with men in my family is all negative and i saw women suffering because this is the life they choose. I was not gonna be that. *
*But after i have been in a relationship with a pakistani, everything changed. And i realized that there are pakistani men that are good hearted. The way he loves me and protects me but most of all respects me, is priceless. *
*And the best part is he is born and raised in pakistan and I in the US, the only times he's left the country is for swimming competitions when he used to represent pakistan in other countries. *
So my point it, just because of some special members on GS or some other special characters, you should not undermine how great a pakistani husband can be, and you might be surprised where you'll find them:).
And yes they're really good looking, well not the ones in pittsbrugh, but everywhere else:@:
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They will never ask for a seperate bank account and work till the end to support our naaz nakray and your children's naaz nakray and your grand children naaz nakhray.
Other things you don't hear typical pakistani husbands saying
"I just need my space"
"I just need to hang out with my friends tonight"
"I don't feel like doing it"
"I don't find you attractive enough"
"I want to explore the world alone and leave my responsibilities behind"
"I am going to treat your parents like garbage"
That's just off the top of my head.
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adding to what gaia said... the only "special" ones ive ever come across, are the ones on here (select few as well).
there are genuinely nice desi guys out there... they just dont spend a lot of their times on the net. Probably and most likely, have better things to do
njgal, theres nothign wrong with a desi man asking for space... they're human too :)
From this website alone I see too many negative portrayals of our desi men and too many statements from male guppies which are nothing short of distasteful.
Please tell me why I SHOULD keep up my search for a Pakistani husband. Something. Anything. Throw me a bone here.
good question.
They will never ask for a seperate bank account and work till the end to support our naaz nakray and your children's naaz nakray and your grand children naaz nakhray.
Other things you don't hear typical pakistani husbands saying
"I just need my space" "I just need to hang out with my friends tonight" "I don't feel like doing it" "I don't find you attractive enough" "I want to explore the world alone and leave my responsibilities behind" "I am going to treat your parents like garbage"
That's just off the top of my head.
I agree 100%.
I've never heard my husband say that in our so many years.
To add, other things you don't hear typical pakistani husbands saying:
"You should find a job, we need the income." They always go out and work harder for us :(
They always sacrifice their needs to accomodate ours. I don't see my husband splurging on himself...in fact I have to force him to buy new clothes and shoes. He feels guilty for spending money on himself...he rather spend it on me or the kids.
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That is how my dad is.