Pakistani Men

[njgal]

Re: Pakistani Men

and what aahmed said :D

[Monk]

@Niksik

PCG, I am married to a Pakistani man who I met back in univ. After being married a pretty long time and being in company of families like ours, here is my conclusion:

• Pakistani men respect their wives. They treat you like queens. Only fineprint: you treat them like a king. You make them your #1 priority, you will be their everything.
• Pakistani men are ambitious. As long as they are in company of ambitious people, people who are moving ahead in their careers, etc.
• Pakistani men are God fearing, as long as they are in the company of God-fearing men.
• Pakistani men are appreciative of their wives. Make sure as a wife you take out time to thank them too.

Bottomline, they are as human as anyone else and have the same exact needs.

One thing though, they are very goodlooking

are you the same niksik??
ky tlk ny dosri dulhan ker li hy

[Niksik]

Re: Pakistani Men

I’m not aware of any doosri dulhan

[redvelvet]

@njgal

They will never ask for a seperate bank account and work till the end to support our naaz nakray and your children's naaz nakray and your grand children naaz nakhray.

Other things you don't hear typical pakistani husbands saying

"I just need my space" "I just need to hang out with my friends tonight" "I don't feel like doing it" "I don't find you attractive enough" "I want to explore the world alone and leave my responsibilities behind" "I am going to treat your parents like garbage"

That's just off the top of my head.

^ It would also depend upon the desi guy, his personality, where he was raised, etc.

I could picture some desi guys saying the above things. We've had a few guppans create threads where they've had a few of the above listed issues with their husbands.

"I am going to treat your parents like garbage"...............well, some desi guys might not come out and say that directly..............but their actions will definitely reflect that they don't respect their wives' parents.

^ Perhaps.....for some (not all) desi guys......the saying could be....."I will let my parents treat my wife and her parents like crap while I maintain a passive attitude."

"I don't feel like doing it".........I see that as a comment that can come from men of various races.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Pakistani Men

The "I don't feel like doing it" is not an issue with brown guys. All they think about is sex.

[Pseudonymous]

@PyariCgudia

From this website alone I see too many negative portrayals of our desi men and too many statements from male guppies which are nothing short of distasteful.

Please tell me why I SHOULD keep up my search for a Pakistani husband. Something. Anything. Throw me a bone here.

i feel the exact same way. except i won't say that i feel like this about "desi" men, but men in general. after reading all the horror stories here on GS and from people i know, i'm afraid of getting married.

[Pseudonymous]

@PyariCgudia

The "I don't feel like doing it" is not an issue with brown guys. All they think about is sex.

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[redvelvet]

@PyariCgudia

The "I don't feel like doing it" is not an issue with brown guys. All they think about is sex.

Men in general have stronger sexual urges compared to women. But they also go through stress (at work, financial problems, etc) in life.....that can potentially kill their libido temporarily, lol. Or so I've read.

[Skittlez]

Re: Pakistani Men

"I dont feel like doing it" I didnt even think of that in regards to sex. Its more of when you ask a guy to do something like take out the trash or something theyll be all immature and moan and groan and be like "i dont feel like doing it"

[Pseudonymous]

@SkiTTleZ

"I dont feel like doing it" I didnt even think of that in regards to sex. Its more of when you ask a guy to do something like take out the trash or something theyll be all immature and moan and groan and be like "i dont feel like doing it"

that's what i thought too.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Pakistani Men

Oh maybe that’s what niksik meant…

I guess my mind is in the gutter too

[Pseudonymous]

Re: Pakistani Men

^i think that is what she meant. i don't think a guy would ever say "i don't feel like it" to sex :D

[Niksik]

Re: Pakistani Men

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Pakistani Men

I was just thinking that. What desi guy refuses???

[kaun]

@PyariCgudia

The “I don’t feel like doing it” is not an issue with brown guys. All they think about is sex.

[Kinzz]

@PyariCgudia

I was just thinking that. What desi guy refuses???

Shopping

[FrozenFire]

Re: Pakistani Men

PCG, you will never be able to find the 'perfect' guy. Whether it be white,brown or black. Every guy has shortcomings, just like any girl. Its just a matter of what you think a shortcoming is...

umm.. you dont have to find Pakistani man if you dont feel that they are your types. There are a lot of other non-pakistani men out there who are way better than Pakistani men. But then again, it all comes down to what you are really after. Pakistani men are no less or more than any other men you can find out there. Only reason you and a Pakistani man would be good idea is if you like your culture and want to stick to it.

[CM]

Re: Pakistani Men

Snookums, its because we gave up being with that hot slutty gori girl to be with you!

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Pakistani Men

Snookums? Seriously?

(weirdo alert...)

[CM]

Re: Pakistani Men

That is nothing. Let me take you on a magic carpet ride. That should solve all your worries about men :D