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Now I want to laugh for real. Know that look and face very well :halo:
Yes right stop BSing we know the truth !
LOL assumptions kid.
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i m sorry i didnt quite get you. Every one here knows who is BS'ing :D
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Very cheeky. However, me being the older and maturer one here will stop pointless argument with you here. You can talk to the empty walls in this thread after I leave. Adios kid.
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why has butterfly gone so quiet
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butterfly is a multi.
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LOL yay arafat you are the multi detector:k: good job !
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Not all Pakis men are like that butterfly there a re a few openminded ones too.
Exactly. What is it with this friggin complex people are having these days, seriously. Don’t try to be what you’re NOT. Yes, you have a British passport, but that doesn’t make you a Brit. Like sweet.i.f said, your roots still lead back to Pakistan. Bohut shauk hai tum logoon ko ‘British’ honay ka. Jeeeez, get a grip on yourself.
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Geeeez.. think much of yourself Butterfly...?(!)
Did you ever think that perhaps these "Paki" men DON'T want to marry you because you have an ego the size of the Grand Canyon and think WAY too much of yourself..? I actually do feel sorry for the guy that does end up marrying you..
Perhaps you have had a bad exeprience with a handful of Pakistani men but with the actions of a minority, you cannot judge the majority..!!
I'm also guessing that your Grand parents and parents came here from "Pakiland" so by your "theory" that ALL men from Pak are deceitful, conniving, abusive, uneducated etc etc, does that mean that your male relations were/are too? What about your male cousins and uncles that are in Pak? Are you WAY BETTER than them too because you have a "little red book"..?
I am sick to death of this mentality that people in Pakistan are worthless, uneducated, blah blah, blah. What makes you think YOU are so much better than them (aside from the fact you have a British Passport)?..
People in Pakistan have to struggle EVERYDAY for what we have given to us daily. We can just go to Asda/Tesco and BUY veg.. These people have to spend months preparing the land, planting the seeds, nuturing their crops for just a plate of Aloo gobi..
We can go to our local butchers on Eid and buy any meat we want. These people have to save months in advance so they have enough food to feed family and friends.
We HAVE to go to school when we turn 3/4 years of age.. These people cannot afford to go to school and they WANT to..
In my eyes, these people are WAY BETTER than us. They are stronger, resilient, resourceful and appreciate every little thing that Allah (swt) has blessed them with..
You, Butterfly.. are an ungrateful little...S**
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Sorry.. That was harsh but it had to be said...
butterfly is a multi.
Oh, and what is a "multi"?
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Hmm. The same thing could be said about goray men, I mean do you really think they all treat their wives well? Plus as someone here pointed out before none of the white people will ever consider you to be a "true" Brit. They look at you and judge you by that.
I understand your concern about the way some Pakistani guys are behaving, however don't judge all of them by the few examples you have seen so far, some can be really nice etc. Plus I believe that education plays a big role, if the guy comes from an educated background he is more likely to treat you respectful. Maybe you are talking about a certain group of people which can be found in any country.
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I don't think even the goray would accept such a "Coconut"..
From my personal perspective i can understand where the OP is coming from as most Pakistani guys from back home that i have come across are pretty creepy.
On the other hand Pakistani girls born and raised in Pakistan especially where im from are in my opinion alot more conservative, respectful and polite then the ones in the U.K. The only problem is you'll have to pay for her education here in U.K and be able to take the stress of that process, aswell helping her assimilate into the British lifestyle.
As for Pakistani men born in Pakistani i wouldn't trust them with a bargepole unless he was related.
Plz ppl stop using this DESI term to collectively label Pakistanis, i have nothing in common with bhindians.
Never seen a nation (other than Pakistan) that puts their own folks down as hard as we Pakistanis do. The use of the term Pakistani may be questionable, because a large part of the group lives outside Pakistan, and prefers to call themselves British or Americans, which is fine, since they have been born and raised there.
But heres a gentle reminder. If you girls from Britain or America dont want to marry a Pakistani, then tell that to your parents. Dont badmouth all Pakistani guys just because the cousins that your parents got your sorry asses engaged to when you were 3 have turned out to be losers.
Blame your family genes.
Or else, if they are not your cousins, then I guess you just seem to be attracting likeminded people, only to realize later that they are not your type.
Word of advice: Stick to finding guys locally.
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Maybe..JUST MAYBE...this thread is a mirror to out the hypocrisy--people easily and openly bash western women/abcd desis...
see its not so good to be on the other side now is it?
This thread makes me laugh, so to clarify it's not ok to make assumptions about desis, but it's ok to make assumptions about white people if your trying to counter-attack the assumptions about desis.
As a white person who grew up in a 'multi-cultural' area, my experience has been that the Pakistanis are the most racist people I have ever encountered. Not only do they 'look down' on non-believers, they look down on white and black Muslims too. In my community their refusal to integrate has been the cause of nearly all problems. Did that stop me marrying a Pakistani? No it didn’t, I just made sure he wasn’t one of those backward, inbred, mentally retarded, hypocrites.
This thread makes me laugh, so to clarify it's not ok to make assumptions about desis, but it's ok to make assumptions about white people if your trying to counter-attack the assumptions about desis. As a white person who grew up in a 'multi-cultural' area, my experience has been that the Pakistanis are the most racist people I have ever encountered. Not only do they 'look down' on non-believers, they look down on white and black Muslims too. In my community their refusal to integrate has been the cause of nearly all problems. Did that stop me marrying a Pakistani? No it didn’t, I just made sure he wasn’t one of those backward, inbred, mentally retarded, hypocrites.
Typical case of lay the blame on the Pakistanis who are obv. racist yet as white person theres nothing wrong in labelling them 'backward,inbred,mentally retarded'.
Well your husband may not be an inbred, hypocrite or even backwards but he surely is one retarded Pakistani who ended up with you over a beautiful, chaste and well mannered Pakistani girl. Thankfully 'white-pakistani' couples are heavily frowned upon in B'ham and a rarity, long may it continue. Any marriages that do occur either result in a honour killing or the stupid Pakistani guy/girl involved being disowned aswell as being ostracized from the community.
Your monarchy is inbred yet the vast majority of Brits adore them.
May i ask what you mean by 'problems' caused by their refusal to integrate? What is your idea of integration?
By saying you live in a 'multi-cultural' place do you mean the city of Birmingham or a select area i.e Edgbaston, Small Heath etc ? If you mean the city then you have no rights to comment on the Pakistani mentality just because you have meet one out of 200,000+ Pakistanis who currently reside in Brum.
Typical case of lay the blame on the Pakistanis who are obv. racist yet as white person theres nothing wrong in labelling them 'backward,inbred,mentally retarded'.
Well your husband may not be an inbred, hypocrite or even backwards but he surely is one retarded Pakistani who ended up with you over a beautiful, chaste and well mannered Pakistani girl. Thankfully 'white-pakistani' couples are heavily frowned upon in B'ham and a rarity, long may it continue. Any marriages that do occur either result in a honour killing or the stupid Pakistani guy/girl involved being disowned aswell as being ostracized from the community.
Your monarchy is inbred yet the vast majority of Brits adore them.
May i ask what you mean by 'problems' caused by their refusal to integrate? What is your idea of integration?
By saying you live in a 'multi-cultural' place do you mean the city of Birmingham or a select area i.e Edgbaston, Small Heath etc ? If you mean the city then you have no rights to comment on the Pakistani mentality just because you have meet one out of 200,000+ Pakistanis who currently reside in Brum.
Exhibit A through Z, need I say more?
This is the biggest problem with pakistanis in the UK, race over religion. No wonder you are despised by the afghans and Arabs, you people give Muslims a bad name in the UK.