I didnt mean to get personal and that was not my intention, in west we are direct in our conversations and eastern people think of it as being rude or personal. Our definitions of abuse are very encompassing, again if my wife goes out shopping and blows thousands on credit cards and I ask her not to, by our definitions that is financial abuse. If the wife starts putting on a lot of weight and you just ask her to pay attention to her health, that would be emotional abuse. We have situation here where this Egyptian PHD student was seduced to go drinking with this girl, she sent him suggestive texts, she invited him to her house, into her bedroom and into her bed and then charged him with rape and the guy got convicted. So I wouldnt go on the figures you are quoting here. In real life here more males are getting abused but it is not reported.