Re: Pakistani Girls…
The laws are very strict here and a mere phone call elicits a very forceful response from the law enforcements and many times these phone calls are made in a spirit of vengeance or settling scores, the definitions of abuse here are different, just criticising her spending too much money is considered abuse here. If she doesn’t want to cook or clean and you ask her to then that is also abuse. In a couple of decades here I have not personally come across any female who got a beating from her husband or father. I know of several immigrants here who got arrested for beating their wives. Since you have not experienced the western life so you couldn’t possibly know what it feels like to buy your own car, buy your own house, decide to hike up a mountain, go scuba diving, swim with sharks, backpacking thru europe etc. A lot of young ladies who worked for me do these things. I know you make your own monies but to have a guardian means you need approval and permission.
When you give someone power over another human being then chances are that power will be abused so why give men that power over women? Arent many of these Saudi guardians travelling for prostitution all over the world so how can they qualify to be guardians?