Re: Pakistani Girls dating
Unfortunately we are not Indian or Arab girls. Sorry for being a tad bit old fashioned but we have our izzat and our parents izzat to protect. In our religion it says that when a man and a women are in the same room alone, satan comes in between them. And it is sooo true. If I had a boyfriend I would want to bang him ( lol just kidding ^ _ ^ ) I would want to ‘be with’ him and that would lead to bad bad things. Plus did you know that if you have sex before marriage you get 60 years + of sins. And if you have a child as result of that you get sins for every step that child takes. If you get an abortion done then you get sins for that too. And dating leads to intimate relationships, that is why we have all these teen pregnancies and abortions.
And you know not dating anyone adds more excitement on your wedding day. Your finally going to be with your ‘other half’ and can share all your experience with them.
You have no regrets about giving your first kiss or virginity to someone who was not your ‘life partner’ and the father of your children. I shudder at the thought of having to live with that regret. ( i think it’s different if your marriage does not work out and then you get married again)
My 2 cents
so how exactly is a sin measured is it like a Newton? An inch? what kinda unit is it? How do you weigh a sin what does 60 + years of sin look and then what happens?