Pakistani Girls dating

Frankly I think it is about time they all started dating. Arab girls do it. Indian girls do it. It would solve some of their issues that is for certain. Mental and boy related.

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:nono:

I like Pakistani girls the way they are.

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CM just needs a frand thats all by the looks of it :faizy:

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Ohh that would have been a better thread. Picking up desi chicks on line. So much more explosive :D

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adding more to it, guys are you normally able to distinguish b/w normal Pakistani and Indian girl? what are the flags? :)

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Normal Indian girl doesn't think she is a model and more important can carry a sane conversation without giving attitude :D

oops so all those girls were Indian? :eek:

next generation will, wait till then :P in this generation its not allways accepted by family or the men... pfffff they give u the look if they know uve dated...

I have a question on the whole boy-girl conversation and what constitutes "attitude".

Is it:

a) having an opinion
b) having an opinion that's different than a guy
c) expressing that opinion
d) debating that opinion

or some combination any of the above?

Do guys not want to have an intelligent converstation with a girl?

Just curious because a friend of mine raised this issue and it's left me perplexed.

dude kion larkon ka kachoomer kerwana hy...

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If they started doing what rest of them girls do, how would they be better than the rest of the world then mate. How could you.

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^Just because of this attitude pakistanis guys who cant married die virgins :no:

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Sehrysh you remember that thread about that girl who liked this guy a lot but blew him off a few times and then he just gave up on her and now she misses him? That is the attitude I am talking about.

It is rare to find a Pakistani girl who doesn't think you are getting into her pants when you just go up and chat with her.

And they weren't wrong mate.

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CM pakistani guys think the same when a pakistani girl is coming on to them.... its coz ur from the same coulture... it has nothign to do with th girls :D
Its different with other etnicities u mentioned....

Pakistani culture overall is less liberal than other im afraid ;)

That’s easily solved, you have to look at her* eyes* when you’re talking to her :hehe:

On a serious note, all the Pakistani girls I know, myself included, definitely don’t think that way. Unless of course the guy’s behaviour tells us otherwise.

We’ve discussed this topic before and I admitted that the social norms are messed up and create certain assumptions in the minds of the guy/girl with respect to interaction between the genders.

But, if either gender can get past the assumptions and meet as peers and not potentials, are guys bothered by girls who have opinions or a mind of their own?

A girl friend of mine hates when the girls actually express opinions contrary to the guys in the mixed group and my reaction is, I’m not going to dumb myself down just to stroke a guy’s ego. And I’d like to think guys actually want to be able to talk about anything and everything - trivial and important issues. I think it’s my girl friend who’s messed up - but what do I know :rolleyes:

thats so true .. and pakistani girl thinks the same even if she meets someone "online" .. :D

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Sehrysh, your girl friend has some issues, or maybe it is the way she was brought up. Her household could be very male dominated, and it is what she knows. You should know better why she has that point of view. Again everone is different and acts differently. I have no problem talking to a girl and hearing different points of views than mine. It may open my mind up to something different, or I may not agree with it. In any case, I wouldn't have any issue in hearing a different opinion.

opinionated girls are fun to talk with .. BUT .. in that case that opinionated girl thinks that “she is the only desi girl having opinion” and if boy “dis-agree” with that she would not think on the basis of disagreement .. she will thkink that “since i am a girl thats why boys don’t accept my opinion” .. Got the difference??

Giving opinion, being intelligent or whatever is different thing that thinking .. I AM THE ONLY ONE AND EVERY SINGLE GUY IS GONA CRAZY ABOUT ME is way different thing.

And most importantly, whenever a guy talks with that girl, the only thing that she will think is that “he is trying to get into her pants” .. .. and will start showing “random” attitude :slight_smile: