Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
Not really. Its just they're so much more awesome.
Hi everyone,
What is better to marry someone from pakistan or someone who is living in west? what are the pro and cons?
Marry someone you feel you are compatible with irrespective of where they are living. I will say that it is probably more difficult when marrying someone from Pakistan, as you will have the immigration issues. Though that is not a big deal in itself, there will definitely be adjusting for the person when he comes to the new country leaving everything behind. Keep that in mind and think about what you can handle.
Otherwise mindset, you will only know if you get to know the guy a little as well as the family. There are highly educated people in the US with horrible backwards mentality and also people living in Pak with good moderate way of life overall, so you never know. Basically people of all kinds everywhere, bu tjust know what you are getting into and what you really want.
and what is that humor me, women have all these crazies thoughts for Pakistan guys either they born in west or in Motherland .. a word on that !
their are three types of chicks as far i understand (Pakistani’s)
-
one who are on totally extreme right .. they do parda/scarf and hell a lot of stuff according to their version of Islam .. on top of that they are all well educated but with such a mentality .. that it make the guys sick like.. hey i don’t like that.. its not islamic .. this is islamic ..and they will back all their claims from their own twisted version of religion understanding.. they whine all the time .. more like control freak.. (stay away from this kind - as per their mentality they will never be good in bed and neither in life)
-
one who are on totally extreme left … they don’t do parda/scraf .. they are like hot babies in the college/school too but never got good marks, their faces are beautiful but also fill with ego too .. . and they & whine about pitty topics all the time too.. all they want is .. freedom for themselves but not for the guy (as per their mentality and lifestyle they try to be good in bed)
-
now this version of the girl is who is in middle, .. .she do scraf or don’t do some times .. she has respect for Islamic rules but not in extreme levels, .. she is not extra ordinary educated .. but just finish some college.. .. have beautiful, lovely face.. and easily to bend according to situation .. she will be a good wife and mother imo .. (go for it - its not the bed all matters its the mental “sakkooon”)
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
I'm not the one making claims that girls here are less awesome than the girls back in Pakistan.
They have no choice, but to marry fobs. They are easy, typically less intelligent, less schooled, and with a poor handle on English so they have to be dependent on you...which in turn feeds your egos which would probably not get fed with the intelligent desi girls raised here.
They're also less likely to stand up for themselves so men and their families don't need to worry much about lawsuits and divorce proceedings, etc. They don't know their legal rights usually and typically are not employed OR they don't make enough money to feel confident in walking out on your bakhwaas or your amma's bakhwaas.
wow, .. such ... what do you think about Pakistani ladies who born, raised in Pak?
they are not cows/bakri's.. and all of your talk about pakistani ladies in all the threads seriously make no sense.. because it's not happened in real life.. probably in some cases.. yes.. but very few !
Example of a bad specimen, ladies...
Red flag. Red flag.
and what is that humor me, women have all these crazies thoughts for Pakistan guys either they born in west or in Motherland .. a word on that !
their are three types of chicks as far i understand (Pakistani's)
1) one who are on totally extreme right .. they do parda/scarf and hell a lot of stuff according to their version of Islam .. on top of that they are all well educated but with such a mentality .. that it make the guys sick like.. hey i don't like that.. its not islamic .. this is islamic ..and they will back all their claims from their own twisted version of religion understanding.. they whine all the time .. more like control freak.. (stay away from this kind - as per their mentality they will never be good in bed and neither in life)
2) one who are on totally extreme left ... they don't do parda/scraf .. they are like hot babies in the college/school too but never got good marks, their faces are beautiful but also fill with ego too .. . and they & whine about pitty topics all the time too.. all they want is .. freedom for themselves but not for the guy (as per their mentality and lifestyle they try to be good in bed)
3) now this version of the girl is who is in middle, .. .she do scraf or don't do some times .. she has respect for Islamic rules but not in extreme levels, .. she is not extra ordinary educated .. but just finish some college.. .. have beautiful, lovely face.. and easily to bend according to situation .. she will be a good wife and mother imo .. (go for it - its not the bed all matters its the mental "sakkooon")
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
There are examples on this forum alone and this forum doesn't even touch 1% of the jahalliyat in Pakistan.
Since it boils down to ‘how she is in bed’ for you, I really hope you get number 1 
You got it all wrong. The parents do such a good job with the boys that they're good for both the girls brought up in Pakistan as well as those brought up abroad.
Hmm not sure if I agree, even though you are talking in jest i know. From what I have seen, the guys that typically go back home for girls are:
1) Not a very 'eligible' bachelor, so chalo koi tho pakistan mein mil jaiga
2) Guy who has been around the block and back is unable to find girl, as most people now know about this guy's reputation and refuse to marry their daughter off to such even though the Mama claims my son is so religous....etc
3) The mother of the boy or even boy believes that they will find a woman willing to listen to them, mold to their lifestyle, do what they say...etc....etc....respectful. Let me tell you the few people I have seen who do this, later have regretted it as those bahus made life living hell for them, as they came programmed with mindset to seperate hubby/parents even from meeting each other...just talking about few I have seen.
But I have seen some wonderful girls from back home as well, who come here to find a surprise from the guy's side....ahh Amreeka is not all the rosy posy fantasy they imagined....
all of them was wonderful .. because they were our fathers & mothers.. what’s the change now? we born, have educated .. so-called good jobs but no sakoon.. yeh.. whatever 
..
i settled with no.3 
Hm…notice the grammar and sentence structure. Obviously from the pind.
and you did really great job until today in your life with good grammer and sentence structure :k: …
p.s the pind is faisalabad,..
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
That explains a lot.
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
^ it’s better then a pigeon hole.. ..
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
Pigeons make more sense.
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
while 'desi' girls sit and ponder on their awesomeness, the goris abroad are snapping up these boys, fobs and abcds alike. this yr alone i have witnessed 3 inter-racial marriages of close friends, get out of your pigeon holes girls and stop feeling sorry for yourself. don't just obsess over what the guy has to offer you, think over what you have to offer as well, maybe the answer will solve a lot of problems. its about looking for compatibilty and family values you have been raised with and apparently 'desi' (Pakistani) men are top contenders in these categories, from what I see out there. they are being appreciated by women who know first hand what real 'pigs' act and live like, i don't see any of them complaining, quite the contrary in fact.
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
So you are saying white men treat their families like trash and are jaahil. And Pakistani guys aren't?
The delusion of how superior our race is despite all the current worldly and societal evidence is beyond me.
You do know that Pakistan is a developing country and it's not a matriarchial society?
Re: pakistani boys vs western desi boys
I say what I see out there from real people and real life, thats what I have witnessed lately, not gettting my stats from the latest desi drama online.