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[quote=Captain1]
The problem is (may be) we don’t appreciate other “guys” until and unless someone is REALLY wearing something good, but if we appreciate “girls” its taken as “flattering/flirting” and “nooked” 
by other people around 
it depends on HOW you say it…
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[quote=diya17]
okay, I’ll try changing my way, but what if I get beaten to death by them, their parents, husbands etc?
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lol...why would you if your are not being an idiot and trying to hit on 'em...its all about the way you say it and the way you look at them..
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oh yaar, kabhi bhabhyan bhee achhay kapray pehenti hayn 
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shweetz i think its among girls.. desi girl doesnt like giving compliments to another desi girl… and you know we will not reveal where we got certain top from or a bag. we dont like another one have the same stuff as us…
but mein asi to nahe hon 
i am simple si choti si bachi
captaaan ji- paaa ji- it doesnt bother me a guy telling me i look good or i sound good. Since job is on the phone most of the time i do get hear that alot. 
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[quote=“Captain1”]
there is a way to say it.. hey you look nice, or i hope you sound as beautiful as you look, showing your eyes is a sin too etc… see this is cute
but if you go “wow what hot stuff under that white”
or
" yummy i just ate a strawberry cake" and makin a noise YUMM [disgusting]
or
“uff kia kayaamat hai”
or
whisteling
urgh
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theres no competition if the guy is not rich…being beautiful does’nt work for guys the way it does for women..that why women are more obssessed with it…desi guy complimenting desi guy?what bout desi girls complimenting desi guys in this couuntry..that does’nt happen very often does it?..:halo:
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ok i might be wrong but my experience around desi guys has been as i stated..like if i ever said anything nice to a desi guy about another desi guy they would start complaining about how “un-shareef” he is…“oh you know, that guy is nice but he drinks like a fish..” or something indirect like “yeah that guy’s been AROUND!”
and hey if i ever find a guy cute i say it.
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shweet dreamz! i think you are very smart
barfee hun you are intelligent as well. 
I do compliment woman there is nothing wrong with it at all. even at work- i dont mind saying hey thats a nice skirt or shoes.. my gosh where did you get those from… wow nice designs etc.. . we love talking about those things.. well atleast i do
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I know why this happened to you only. You are cute. Think about it.
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ok so meri job pakki nia? ;)
dope: maybe its maybelline???think about it!
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May be you are modest? Think about it.
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lol ..well actually I agree with you on that...I remember I used to go to my friends' office where I found his secretary hitting on me a bit....my friend got a bit jeolous and started telling bad things about me to her.
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all women hate other women. Fact. Some pakistanis are also women. Fact. Therefore some pakistani women hate ome other pakistani women.
My logic is infalliable, I know.
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You get to have conversations with desi guys? Lucky kid. I feel like I have "just released from prison" sign attached to my forehead. They look so shifty and cant actually look into my eyes.
The last desi guy I spoke to was about two months ago for two mins.
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Folks, please get out of the "auntie ne ye kaha", "auntie ne woh kaha", "auntie ne mera dil tor diya" mind set... and do something productive with your lives. In the larger scheme of things, an auntie commenting on your lipstick is really meaningless. Good education, good careers, raising happy and healthy families and helping your communities is far more important. Whether you like it or not, the way you guys keep whining about aunties all the time, indicates that pretty soon you will be like those aunties as well. God forbid. Please break the cycle and focus on bigger things around yourselves.
Next time you start a thread, hopefully it will be about the great new initiative you are starting in your community to help new immigrants, or to teach English to non-english speaking members of your community, or to volunteer at the local half-way house or at the very least, that you have passed a test in flying colors or that you have scored a fantastic new promotion at your job because of the wonderful work you have done. Then we can all applaud you and say what a great accomplishment. Cheers!
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lolz. guys with shifty eyes around a girl!!! I wanna see that! they're probably intimidated???
faisal- i like your signature!
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inshallah chacha ji i plan on doing it right when i am at your age :~) - in a mean time i will worry about these little little things…
They do matter… if you think about it