Why is it so tough for one pakistani to appreciate another pakistani?
why do people get jealous why cant you simply give a nice comment?
It doesnt hurt us to let someone else know they are looking good or they did one heck of a job etc.
But one pakistani to another… whats up with that?
*or is it me - may be i am being alittle emotional
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The Pakistani's I have come across have been fine
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No problem with any Pakistanis here.
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im just pissed at this one aunt. everytime i went to her house she’d be like “oh tumhari kameez itni choteee kyun hai beta?” “yeh kaisa ajeeb sa golden bag hai” or “iss hairstyle mein tum PIA kii air-hostess lagg rahi ho”
today her daughter wears the same kameezes, carries the same bag and makes the same hair… 
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shweetz she appreciated you.... - mere sath har wakt paindu kisam ke log *smack
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its u nia!
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maybe its corporate jealousy.
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captian1 - i really dont appreciate that - *naraz - i was discussing some serious issue here and you guys have managed to *sigh
queer - i appreciate my gujjo indian buddy - *hugz
lets get back to the topic
You go to desi gatherings and you will find aunties staring at you. Noticing everything you say or do but would never ever bother saying oh hun you look pretty instead- TUM ne kese kapre pehne hai , ho haai lipstick itni dark [just like shweetz mentioned]
now all of you men/little boys who replied above - when was the last timey ou appreciated someone?
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the best imitations of aunties
umm, yea - i think its more of a problem with girls rather than guys. I haven’t encountered myself, but have heard of such stories.
Then again, women need to gossip - so they will pick the new comer - or the one who “is different” (if you know what i mean).
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haha i get that too 
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oh by the way another one -
acha beta bohot ho gaya parhai warhaai abh shadi karo and then on the other hand aj kaal ke bache parhate warhate nahee....
i have stop replying to them i get no where - but frustration
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It is women thing nia, aunties are *****ey most of the time, but dont worry ! it will take some time before you would atain their class !
It is just by the passage of time you will become from Nia the chick to SaRrieyal Aunty Nia !!
We Guys always give and recieve compliments, and ofcourse I come across no nationality other than pakistanians 
Hey Captain1 
you are looking handsome in your uniform :k:
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classis quotes!.
btw, its **not **only pakistanies aunties. This attitude exists in some people (no specific race/ nationality required).
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my dads family is like that...they will do whatever it takes to make you look really littel and themselves look big...
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the PIA stuff is the worst thing to sayyy....oh and my aunt always tells me "Diya why dont you eat sumthing"...like mind your own freaken businesssssssssssssssss
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why do people get jealous why cant you simply give a nice comment?
It doesnt hurt us to let someone else know they are looking good or they did one heck of a job etc.
But one pakistani to another... whats up with that?
*or is it me - may be i am being alittle emotional
no you are absolutely right....there is a lot of jeolousy amongs Pakistanis overseas...but its more of a womens' thing..women love being jeolous and arrogant much more so than guys
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i have yet to see a desi guy complimenting another desi guy (esp in front of his woman) that he considers competition.
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someone has issues :whistling
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The problem is (may be) we don’t appreciate other “guys” until and unless someone is REALLY wearing something good, but if we appreciate “girls” its taken as “flattering/flirting” and “nooked” 
by other people around
Thanks Codey, u look wonderful without that icon/avatar :k:
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thats right 