If a girl asks for a doctor, she is a gold digger.
If a guy asks for a doctor, its his right and he is a "poor guy" with a JD and looking for a doctor-wife who can add to his personal wealth.
Anyone smell a double standard or sexism here?
A woman has all the right to ask for a doctor. Nothing wrong. She should not be called a gold digger. And even if she is then so what?
Using good acceptable method to achieve that goal is absolutely fine.
Watching out for good future is the fundamental right of anyone, however they perceive it to be good.
Hope we understand each other here. :-)