jo kerna hai ... do it quietly ... marrying within status is actually good ... avoids a lot of problems ... but there is a lot more to your post than just that ... and therefore some things are better left unsaid ...
everyone has their own way of looking at things and has their own priorities ... therefore it is not amazing that people here who differ with your frame of mind (including myself) are gnawing at you ...
u have everything pretty much sorted out in the head from post 1 ... i cant find a reason for this debate ...
go ahead and just do it ... good-luck with finding ur uber-perfect match though