jo kerna hai … do it quietly … marrying within status is actually good … avoids a lot of problems … but there is a lot more to your post than just that … and therefore some things are better left unsaid …
everyone has their own way of looking at things and has their own priorities … therefore it is not amazing that people here who differ with your frame of mind (including myself) are gnawing at you …
u have everything pretty much sorted out in the head from post 1 … i cant find a reason for this debate …
go ahead and just do it … good-luck with finding ur uber-perfect match though