Yaar you have to understand that you are being attacked because you have done the unthinkable i.e. asking for an educated and nice gal preferably a doc/eng. It is only the prerogative of girls to ask for guys with nice stable jobs.
He's making it sound as if it's freakin' investment banking, not shaadi. Any girl who does that deserves the same. Just because some girls do it and are not bashed for it doesn't mean this shmuck doesn't deserve the flaming he is receiving.