Exactly !!
When a girl wants a nice, caring, educated engineer/doc with a stable job etc etc … the responses are like “Hai Allah kitni achi baat hai… Awwwwww…”
But God forbid if a guy wants to marry a doc/eng girl he’s supposed to be the biggest jerk and materialistic. I doubt if PushtoonWarrior ever said that he didn’t want a caring girl.
So go for it Pushtoonwarrior you are entitled to your choice regardless of how some gals on these forums are trying to give the impression that great guys are in abundance while great gals are rare.