Re: Pakistani-American or Pakistani Girl
The U.S. doesnt have many pushtoons. The ones that are here are very spread out and sometimes its just not easy to get to know the families because they often want someone local whom they have interacted with. So I think it will not be as easy for you to find a pushtoon girl here with all the things you require.
Even if you find a wife who is a doctor in Pakistan, she will have to study additionally to take exams here to qualify for working here. Also if she is a lawyer in Pak, you must be aware that a law degree abroad does not automatically qualify you to practise law here. What if the girl doesnt want to go through that? How will you feel if lets say later on after marriage your wife didnt pass a qualifying exam? There are a lot of things you need to consider before you make either decision.
I think its best to do istikhara to see what decision is best for you.