If a girl asks for a doctor, she is a gold digger.
If a guy asks for a doctor, its his right and he is a "poor guy" with a JD and looking for a doctor-wife who can add to his personal wealth.
Anyone smell a double standard or sexism here?
You are confused. There is BIG difference. When a guy asks for a girl to have a decent education and a decent job, its understood that the guy keeps handsoff from girl's income. Most desi men know this and do exactly that.
When a girl wants a guy who is a doctor but with a condition that he is practicing in US but not in pakistan, only because she knows well a doctor in US gets paid more, is a stone cold gold digger. Our pushtoon friend here certainly doesnt qualify as he is inquiring simply on compatability reasons and not monetary.
Now the girl in the other thread demanding that the guy get education from certain school has clearly $ in mind and nothing else. Please dont confuse the issue.