I understand your point perfectly, I hope you understand mine. :)
What makes you think my comment was ONLY aimed at you? Are you the only one here? No. :)
Majority of the time, if a woman were to so openly demand a doctor for a husband...she is labeled as a gold digger by men AND women. The term "gold digger" is used mostly for women.
Anyway, this is getting nowhere now.
PW, do what you want but your best choice is not here...its in Pakistan. Girls here look for a lot more and need a lot more from their relationships and marriage. Thats not to say you cant provide that but it seems like you're looking for something else from your marriage. A girl that was born, bred, educated and lived here will have no need for your arrangement. But if you look elsewhere...you might find someone better suited to your requirements.
Good luck!
I did get your point. :-)
You were against double standards and so am I.
If a woman wants to make sure her future is safe then by using good standard methods she should be entitled to achieve that. And more power to her. Same rule should equally apply for men looking for women.
I think this gold digger term was coined for women who probably use deceiving methods or merely their illicit techniques to get powerful and rich men.
Many men do that vice versa. Young men marry older rich women too. I am sure we all are aware of these examples.