A woman has all the right to ask for a doctor. Nothing wrong. She should not be called a gold digger. And even if she is then so what?
Using good acceptable method to achieve that goal is absolutely fine.
Watching out for good future is the fundamental right of anyone, however they perceive it to be good.
Hope we understand each other here. :-)
I understand your point perfectly, I hope you understand mine. :)
I would highly recommend that you put on your reading glasses :=) I said:
"if girls can want an engineer/doc with a stable job **without* being called gold diggers"*
What makes you think my comment was ONLY aimed at you? Are you the only one here? No. :)
Majority of the time, if a woman were to so openly demand a doctor for a husband...she is labeled as a gold digger by men AND women. The term "gold digger" is used mostly for women.
Anyway, this is getting nowhere now.
PW, do what you want but your best choice is not here...its in Pakistan. Girls here look for a lot more and need a lot more from their relationships and marriage. Thats not to say you cant provide that but it seems like you're looking for something else from your marriage. A girl that was born, bred, educated and lived here will have no need for your arrangement. But if you look elsewhere...you might find someone better suited to your requirements.
Good luck!