Friendship is not a one way street. Pak cannot expect friendship from India while continuing to fund and arm terrorists who carry out strikes against India. Pak cannot use terrorism as a bargaining chip for Kashmir - as proven over the last 60+ years that strategy has hurt Pak more than India. India is much bigger than Pak in every way, and whatever Pak does against us we can retaliate with a much bigger response. However, that process hurts both sides.
India-Pak have to keep Kashmir aside and talk through the rest of their differences. Thats the only way to move ahead.