Re: Pakistan - Long term stay and marrige!
i did nt really got ur message any ways what i understood i gave u response for that
yes if a gal who is groomed in west and she feels that she is more comfortable n pakistn she should i beleive take some time to visit pakistan and stay for a couple of months this will have following benefits
A western groomed gal may find pakistani society differnt form west esp in begining and it might bi diificult for her to settle in future so she can give her self a try for that , bcz having now seen both societies west and pakistani i think there a lot of difference so u can reard that time as a TRIAL PERIOD to see how can u settle up bcz if u stay for few days then every new place not just pakistan will look different than the place u r used to as i felt really bad when i came to uk so u can judge ur self
second benefit is that meet people around and dont tell them initially that u r for a rishta try to improve ur language and interact this will help u to understand what pakistani men and women have approach now(believe me approach of life is highly different between educated middle class men educated upperclass men and for that matter partially educated people) and try to figure out which is best for u and for that matter this might help u to fetch a sincere person who after interaction may like u for the person u are bcz u need to interact to show what sort of person u r and by that matter when u will move around even u can come in eyes of mothers ,sisters looking for bride for there sons or brothers and in this way u can get a sincere person