Re: Pakistan Born Confused Desis?
Let me further explain myself. when we point fingers at a kid born and raised in Toronto who does not act in a manner which is consistent with what some people consider to be with being a Pakistani he is called a confused desi. It can be anything, not speaking his mother tongue, not wearing traditional clothes, not having an interest in his culture whatever.
I am simply wondering if we apply the same magnifying glass to people in general who are living in pakistan and were born and raised there, do there actions meet the threshhold of being ‘not confused’ and displaying all attributes the deviation from which gets foriegnborn desis a label of confused.
This is not limited to burgers or whatever. Are the chichoras on tariq road groping women confused about their identity and what it means to be a Pakistani, what about people following hindu traditions in their weddings.
While I do appreciate your respopnses, I have to clarify that the post is merely an exercise to help some pakistan born pakistanis do some introspection. I have complete confidence in my identity, confused by some people standards or not confused ![]()