Re: Pakistan Born Confused Desis?
This whole ‘ABCD’ or ‘FOB’ is as stupid a generalization as it can get. Last weekend I met some friends who told me about a Friday sermon who repeated something like this for umpteen times “they (America/west) have unwanted teen preganancies, their teens get pregnant when they are 13” etc. 
For God’s sake Muslim societies have same problems too. Similarly, we Pakistanis are confused in a different way but look at others from our perspective and say them are ABCDs and vice versa.