Re: Paki women with non-Paki guys....
There's a fine line between being obedient and respectful and letting someone run your life. I love my parents more than anything and i don't think I could truly be happy if they disapproved of one of the biggest decisions of my life. But at the same time I don't think kids should have to sacrifice their personal happiness for thier parents, and the question of "parents or [something else]" should never have to come up....The Quran says for us to obey our parents unless they are pushing us to do something unIslamic (such as a forced marriage)..