qt chick, i completely understand where you are coming from.
you were sincere and tried to help when this individual needed help
and then they turn around and spread crap about you.
others may give you lectures here and I really dont see how its relevant.
I would just say, dont change your nature and being who you are because in doing this you have run into a bad apple.
for qtchick, I would say that we are what our friends are. First of all, why are you distributing your numbers to random people on GS. If those people are/were your friends, and in turn their friends are gossiping about you*, then your choice of intial friendship was wrong to begin with.* You cannot call all pakistani ungrateful because you made a foolish mistake of passing your phone number around to the people that you did not even know well.
After reading whole thread I've found the best reply/advise.
The boy was my best friend. I am liberal and about kind hearted God knows well.
I wud have no issue being announced about my “BOY FRIEND” if he really was my boy friend. and in start of my thread I cleared i have no issues with declaration of my Liberalism BUT i have issue with other things they mentioned just for the sake of SPICE. The bloody moron had no clue how much it cud hurt anyone whatever he is saying as back stabbing.
Thanks, the more i expect from pakiz…the less !
and for You Paheli…you need to read this with Open eyes & Brain.
TLK I am part of other Non Paki travel communities. where people use it to actually meet up in REAL and not POSING/PRETENDING “TOM, DICK & Harry” like GS. I got very good friends and business network plus travelling group. I even host foreigner travel groups/students when they visit pakistan. Never had any morality issues with them. You cant blame Trusting on ppl…its the mind set of culture and society where we are living. DO NOT forget its a society where tradtions are ABOVE religion. 5 waqt k so called namaazi parhaizgaar log ya burqa posh khawateen online jab hazaaron logon say GUP SHUP kartay hain toa they forget PARDA sirf SHAKAL ka nahi hota. More over yahaan “Gunah” karna itna asaan aur “Halaal” kam karna utna he mushkil hai.
Ask any of the women…they wont tolerate their husband to get married to an other women but they will be OK if their husband is having an affair of sleeping around with other women. “b.v to main he hoon uss ke na”.
by opening this thread i didnt mean to CLEAR up my self that i not liberal, modern or *****ish. I dont care even if you guys get to know. I am the one telling openly yes i smoke…i party and i am not ashamed of it. I dont want to feel “Superior” by not doing all this but bullying with people and making their life miserable with my acts/my objections/.I live 7 let live but cant spare anyone going against my temperament. My pride is my Humanity , not the so called self modified islam where women think they are Parda daar but hell…yeah they are talking to men over the net.
You want to see Fairness of your own community GS??? here it is…
QTchick is banned because of insult a moron. see what his words are:
So probably who banned my id went blind on his comments or may be he was so DEAR to him/her or chances are they are also one of those GOOD MUSLIM/ GOOD BEINGS who dont like my kind of people. whatsoever is the case…anyone thinks its gonna make any difference to me? Read the thread again…I got infraction on calling someone KAMINA and i could see people using the WORD “Penis” …so does it prove infraction, banning or modship is given on the basis of personal liking or disliking.
Huh… My purpose of the thread was only this no matter we have Pakis from around the world on this forum. But we all have the same mind set. Where traditions are ABOVE religion, and and everybody’s Religion is customized. Hats of to those who made mockery out of it, it proved they got no sense out of what i wrote. Thanks TLK I am already known for being blunt and most probably I am again expecting a ban , thats how WE PAKIZ are. Kill the voice who goes against YOU.
i didnt even know wht r u talking abt , kal tak u ver lik i dont care , whtever … abhi ye kiya hoo giyaa … ap ne apne ana ka masla kiyo bana liyaa … every1 is jst enjoying the tamashaa , nothing else . n Ap ko attension b mil jie jis ki ap ko talash thee … ub orr kiya chaiya ap ko
bcoz the way u behave , when u ver angry u r so much aggressive , u didnt even knw wht r u talking abt …shaant rahai , Live n let other live .
Normally i came on GS just for chill but I’ve read all the thread the best reply as per subject of the thread was TLK reply. But your above post was very emotional one. I like many things and dislike as well but i’m not gonna start discussion on dislike things but agree with your above highlighted comments.
Now just take a and forget the things. If you want to came here just for chill then you can enjoy in cafe but if you came here to argue with ppl then be cool and do your discussion with cool head.
toa tum aik kaam karo…maine to tamasha lagaya hay…tum iss tamashay per ticket laga k kuch paisay kama lo. wesay to kuch aur kaam tumhain aata nahi RTD General sab ke haraam ke kamai khanay k sath sath dosron ka bheja bhi khatay ho. Shayad tamashay ke haalal kamai say thori barkat paray aur tum apni harkaton say baaz aa jao.
and forget the things. If you want to came here just for chill then you can enjoy in cafe but if you came here to argue with ppl then be cool and do your discussion with cool head.