Can you please highlight where in the OP’s post she talks about her friend’s husband getting drunk or where she mentions alcohol? Also, every person’s concept of fun is different. Her husband likes to go out, she likes to stay in. There should be a compromise and also some sort of adaptation to each other’s lifestyle. Not to say she should do all the adjusting but how can HE control what other women wear? Why should I stop walking on the beach because other people cannot seem to keep it covered?