Re: Paki Boys and their hidden fiances...
^ Smart in not a good way. The mean way.
Both men and women get hurt if they are not careful.
Specially girls have so much to lose in any society so they need to be very watchful.
If a man is not committing after a simple reasonable time then they must not stick around.
There are examples when people live together for several years and as soon as they get married they get divorce. Most of the time man was not ready ever to get committed and breaks off early in to marriage.
Bottom line:
1- Girls have more to lose just based on their fragile emotions and need to commit more than man. Its harder for them to get over the broken relationship also.
2- Her reputation will be hurt more than the man. No matter where she is living.