Re: Pain of love
All i’m saying is you need to realize you’re wasting time thinking about this guy who as much as you love him and you say he loves you, you two are not going to be together because of the reasons you stated.
I think all of us have gone through the pain of love. You have to be selfish in this scenario because he is someone else’s husband and you don’t keep in touch or think about other women’s husbands right? right. Like Indigo rain said if your parents don’t seem helpful in changing your surroundings and moving forward to a guy that is right for you, get your other family members involved. Those distractions and changes in surroundings are absolutely necessary for recovery as much as possible so you can get yourself out of these thoughts of you and him and what you’re used to. You aren’t a couple anymore he doesn’t exist and shouldn’t exist in your world.
Just don’t make any rushed decisions if you do meet a single muslim guy because you still aren’t fully emotionally recovered. We don’t really think straight or rationally when we’re emotionally in intense pain. Been there done that.
I hope you aren’t still in touch with him just to see how he’s doing or whatever as in checking his emails or messages because that is something people that are in that state of mind do. That’s just going postpone all the recovery and waste your time. Go cold turkey rather than going through the slow recovery way. It’s two months of just painful, necessary recovery but it’s like taking a band aid off fast rather than slowly.
Just don’t talk about it over and over and over because eventually those people that are helpful will get tired of hearing about your ex. I speak from experience :D. You need those good people in your life.
Hope you don’t get angry with me too
Thx.