Re: Pain of love
I’m sorry but no…just NO. That is a terrible attitude to have. Things happen in life and, as humans, we sometimes have lapses in judgement and behave unwisely. We shouldn’t blame outside forces or “black magic” for our bad judgement (which everyone experiences from time to time).
As far as helpless, honestly, people have given you loads of advice on how to approach your parents and you’ve shot them all down with “this won’t work” or “that won’t work” before even giving their advice a try. In order to stop being helpless, YOU have to be proactive, which you really don’t seem keen on.