ushld know hw to answer such saas for e.g when she said
isnt that saras mums job to buy the dinner sets as jahez
your ans: haan per mumy aaj kal kaun yeh sab sochta hai aab woh zamana kahan raha ( n thn brag abt wat most expensive thing ur mom gave u for eg if its gold in a silent decent way & thn laugh it off)
why wud my son like her , i have so many beautful girls in my own family
your ans: hahah haan bolne waley to kuch bi boldetey hai aap aise sochein bi na..aap yeh imagine karein hamri family mein kisi ne sarah(for eg ur sis name) ko bipasha se bi compare kia tha aaj kal to sari actresses bi sawli hoti haai na haha laugh it off
joke n answer back something tht is intellgent but no one cn get back at u fr it cuz it wld sound lame...NEVER EVER SHUT UP!!!! dont be disrespectful but be hazir jawab...NEVER complain to ur hubby tht ur mom said tht!!! its between u n ur MIL dunt get hubby involved u need to learn hw to handle ur situations n she needs to know tht her typical saas attitude wldnt work wid u...be hazir jawab not disrespectful...if u shut up n let her get away wid it shelldo n njot it more!
hey thanks, i wasnt there when she said about the dinner set....someone else told me who was there. and when you say never ever shutup, thing is my urdu aain that great, as im from the uk and speak englsh at home. i can speak urdu but im not comfortble yet speaking urdu as openly as actually doing hazir jawab in it....and another thing is my natural tone is loudish..so i could say something nice but it may sod rude....so i need to say things nicely ....but i know for a fact even if i said something nicely....which i have......she wont like it. i dnt know what she would think,. but she wont like it...nicely said or not.