Overwhelmed

[Mausam6]

Re: Overwhelmed

@Sara516

That’s…so much more detail you really don’t need to get into esp on here. It doesn’t matter what they did for their daughter, you’re not their daughter, and it really doesn’t matter what someone elses family did either.

Dholkis are hosted by family members, YOU don’t pay for anything! Is your mom helping/advising you on any of this (not financially but in other ways)?

Don’t go broke trying to do everything their way if they’re not willing to help out…it isn’t fair and blahblahblah ppl will tell you life isn’t fair we all know that but still…why ruin your own future over a party? there’s so many events and costs that can be cut if cost is the biggest issue…everyone will whine and complain but they’re not paying so ignore them.

Thanks! I know I’m going to edit those details out now I figured it’d be easier when the full story is told. I’ll be more careful.
My mom has no idea because this is her first time as well, so she’s getting all the ideas and information from other family members. I’m going to try and do Dholki and mehendi at a party hall (they’re usually inexpensive to rent from what I’ve heard) cuz I wont have enough room at home. Yeah, I’ll have to cut costs somehow somewhere. Last I spoke to his sister I told her I had been window shopping for bridals (I don’t want to break anyones back for an outfit I’ll wear once) and first question was “which designer?” to which I just replied ‘Its not a designer but I actually loved this one more than the designer ones I saw’, and there was no response . So you’re right, everyone will whine and complain I just have to ignore them without them knowing it.

I just realized it doesn’t let me edit my own previous posts