Re: Overwhelmed
I don’t think it’s a good idea for YOU to bring up/discuss costs of events with his mom. This should be brought up by your parents.
So has your fiancé told his parents that he wants them to pay for half? And has your fiancé told you how his parents reacted to that? Based on his parents personality, spending habits, how weddings are done in his family, and how they reacted after hearing that your fiancé wants them to pay for half…by now your fiancé should have a pretty good idea as to what they will say.
BTW does your fiancé not have a job or savings? If he understands your financial situation and is supportive…I’m not sure why he can’t give you a check to pay for some items from his personal account to help you without tellings his parents IF his parents refuse to pay.